I've been 'working' on a passion project for years. And by 'working' I mean thinking about it. These characters have been living in my head for over five years and remained there until two years ago when I finally wrote a television pilot, but I know no one in the tv industry. So I sat on it, and sat on it some more. Then in February I had an epiphany, I figured, I'll do a web series. I'll write a prequel to the story, so the world would meet these characters and fall in love with them, but a few months into that process I realized that that was not the right platform for me or this story. So I went back to what seems like my roots and wrote a short film. See, I majored in film production in college, but after graduation I focused on performing and never used that very expensive piece of paper, otherwise know as my diploma. And then like all good procrastinators, I sat on it again because I needed to make it PERFECT before I moved forward!! Ha, when will I learn?!
Since I've started on this journey I've been trying to figure out why I'm so afraid to move, and I think it's because if I do this and people hate it, if they hate my work, then they must think I'm not good. And if people think I'm not good, well, then, they must be right, right? So then everything I've ever thought about myself, my life and my dreams will be wrong. Yes, rationally I know I wear some brightly colored tight fitting CRAZY PANTS!! Because that's insane. My self worth does not depend on something that I create, and it most definitely does not depend on what others think of it. But tell that to the vampires in my head at 1:00 in the morning.
So now, I'm tired!! I'm tired of waiting for something to happen. I'm tired of thinking positively, and reading inspirational quotes and sharing them, and then waiting some more. It's not about waiting, it's about doing. Looking back on my life so far, I've realized I've been waiting to be picked...picked for a team, picked for a dance, picked for a solo, a date, a role, a career, a life even. And I'm tired of it. I can no longer allow myself to wait for someone to "pick" me, so I am picking myself. I'm not going to wait for approval or permission. I'm no longer waiting for the perfect time because I think we all know that no such time exists.
And I may very well fail, but I will do so on my own terms. And by fail I mean, people may hate my film, or worse they may feel nothing at all. It may not get into a single festival, nor be the stepping stone like I hope it will be. Hell, it may not even be seen!! But regardless of the what the outcome turns out to be, I know it will propel me forward, personally and creatively, and that's far better than sitting on my couch waiting for something. I'm going to make a movie:
Going forward, I hope to write a new post every week focusing on bringing this passion project of mine to life, dealing with the difficulties that will arise, facing the fears and irrationalities, and the journey of moving past my comfort zone. Please join me, because it's so much more fun when you feel completely uncomfortable with a friend! Let's do this!
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